Mary L.

Griffin

Mary L. Griffin was born on November 11 in Medon, Tennessee, to the late James Gilbert Blackwell and Dora Blackwell. She was the sixth of eight children and was affectionately known throughout her life as “Baby Sister,” although she was not the youngest.

Mary accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior at a very young age and was baptized at her family’s home church in Medon.

As a child, Mary was a tomboy who loved being outdoors, playing childhood games, and getting into mischief with her younger sister, Mattie. She was strong, spirited, and not one to be challenged unless you were prepared for a little trouble.

Even at an early age, those who knew Mary recognized that she was special. They knew she would be successful and accomplish great things in life. Mary was never a follower; she was a natural-born leader. To know her was to love her, and her infectious spirit and beautiful smile captured the hearts of many.

While Mary was still young, her family moved to La Grange, Illinois. She attended Lyons Township High School, where she excelled academically. Following graduation, she continued her education at a vocational college and earned a nursing degree.

Mary’s dedication, perseverance, and exceptional work ethic were evident throughout her life. Remarkably, she held only two jobs during her entire working career. Her first position was at a cleaners in Hinsdale, Illinois, where she worked alongside her sisters. She later joined Escast Corporation in Addison, Illinois, a leader in aerospace and industrial investment casting. There, she served as both an inspector and the company nurse. Mary remained with the company for 35 years before retiring.

Of all her many accomplishments, Mary was most proud of her family. She treasured her roles as a wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.

In 1958, Mary met and married her soulmate— the man her heart had been waiting for—James C. Griffin. She was the devoted mother of four biological children and lovingly embraced her covenant daughter as her own, making their family complete. Together, James and Mary built a life for their family in Bellwood, Illinois, where they were among the first Black families to live and own their home.

Mary raised their children to believe that the sky was not the limit. She taught them that there were no limits. Mary made sure her children were exposed to life beyond Bellwood by taking them on vacations every summer and visiting multiple states each year. Her children would tell their friends that they had traveled around the world.

For more than 60 years, Mary faithfully served the Lord at Rock of Ages Baptist Church under the leadership of both the founder Reverend T.H. Wade and Pastor Marvin E. Wiley. She lifted her voice in song as a lead singer and a devoted choir member. She shared her talents in numerous church plays, and was honored to serve as a Distinguished Mother of the Church. Mary remained devoted to her faith and her church for as long as her health allowed. When she could no longer attend in person, she continued to worship with her church online.

Mary was also affectionately known as “The Fashion Plate.” She was always dressed to the nines and perfectly coordinated from head to toe. It seemed as though she never wore the same outfit twice. Whether she was at church, a doctor’s appointment, the hair salon, or even the gym, people would eagerly say, “I can’t wait to see what Mrs. Griffin is wearing today.” Her impeccable fashion sense was truly unmatched.

Mary was an avid reader who believed in keeping her mind sharp. She enjoyed completing crossword puzzles and watching television with her family. She was also one of the finest cooks and bakers this side of Heaven. Mary was always preparing or baking something delicious for someone, and she did so with a joyful and generous heart.

Mary had a green thumb and tended to her plants with the same love and care she gave her children. She even talked to them and they seemed to talk back by moving to her voice. Her porch, overflowing with beautiful flowers, was the prettiest on the block. People would stop and ask if they could take pictures in front of her home.

On Thursday, September 17, 2026, Mary L. Griffin peacefully entered eternal rest with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, surrounded by her loving family.

She leaves to cherish her precious memory her devoted husband of 68 years, Deacon James C. Griffin; her loving children, Lorez D. Griffin, Sabrina Wright-Melchor (Michael) of Carol Stream, Illinois, and Kimberly R. Sanders (Willie Jr.) of Baton Rouge, Louisiana; her covenant daughter, Regina M. Turner (Larey) of Chicago, Illinois; her grandchildren, Latoya, Terrance, Ryan, Tieasha, JerryJr., Tiar, Savasia, and Joshua; her brother, Frank Blackwell; her best friend turned sister-in-law, Laura Griffin; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family members, and dear friends.

Mary was preceded in death by her beloved son, Derrick J. Griffin; her parents, James Gilbert Blackwell and Dora Blackwell; and six of her siblings.

Mary’s life was a beautiful testament to faith, strength, devotion, elegance, and love. Her radiant spirit, impeccable style, and unwavering commitment to her family and her Lord will live forever in the hearts of all who were blessed to know and love her.

Mary L. Griffin visitation Friday, October 2, 2026 from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm at Hursen Funeral Home & Crematory,SW corner of Roosevelt & Mannheim Roads, Hillside.

Lying In-State, Saturday from 10:00 am until time of service 11:00 am at Rock of Ages Baptist Church, 1309 W Madison Street, Maywood, IL. Interment Oakridge Cemetery.

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